Four Fun Things | Cup of Jo

Are you a side sleeper? Back? Stomach? I sleep on my belly and prefer to be completely untouched ā€” even someoneā€™s gentle hand on my back will keep me awake. The guy Iā€™m dating right now knows this and does something so sweet: heā€™ll ā€œdrop me offā€ on my side of the bed, by rolling […]

What Are You Going to Be For Halloween?

What are you going to be for Halloween? Here are eight of my favorite costumes through the years, including Sophia Carpenterā€™s ferocious lionsā€¦ Our photographer friend Alpha Smoot was the perfect Annie Hall (and remember her casual NYC wedding)? Loved these giraffes by Paul Lau and Julie Thrall. Lettering artist Jessica Hische was a school […]

Is This Outfit Drippy? | Cup of Jo

Today, I opened my email to see Brooke Barkerā€™s newsletter about how a teenager complimented her outfit this weekend. The title was, ā€œIs this drippy,ā€ followed by ā€œIs that even goodā€ ā€”Ā which made me laugh out loud. Has a teenager complimented your outfit (or shoes or hair or lipstick) in recent memory? I mean, who […]

Have a Relaxing Weekend. | Cup of Jo

What are you up to this weekend? The boys and I are going to our friendsā€™ house tonight to play Blank Slate, a board game theyā€™ve raved about. Weā€™ll report back! Also, check your voter registration status and find your poll site here, if you havenā€™t already. Hope you have a good one, and here […]

Stuff I Just Love | Cup of Jo

Disclosure ā€” In order to grow our small business, Cup of Jo earns revenue in a few different ways. We publish several sponsored posts each month, which are always labeled at the top. We also sometimes earn an affiliate commission on the sales of products we link to. We feature only items we genuinely love […]

10 Reader Comments on Friendship

Have you read Kate Baerā€™s newest poem, The Bridesmaidā€™s Speech? Itā€™s an ode to friendship. Is there anything more powerful than a friend-turned-sibling? Reader, I think not. Here are 10 reader comments on the subjectā€¦ On offbeat hangs: ā€œI attended a PowerPoint party, and it was hilarious. People presented on everything from bad ā€™80s movies […]

Twist: I Like the Word “Moist”

When Kurt Andersen took over as editor of New York Magazine, he printed out a list of ā€œannoying wordsā€ he didnā€™t want his writers to use. When I was 32, I wrote about this list on Cup of Jo, then added a word that I myself hated: moist. Moist? Ew, gross. If you described banana […]

Squash Tart with Herby Ricotta

I have a lot of Instagram crushes, but these days one man definitely takes the leadā€¦ That man is Julius Roberts, the former London-based chef who fled the restaurant rat race to raise pigs, chickens, goats, and sheep on an impossibly picturesque farm in the English countryside near the Dorset coast. His life is enviable, […]

The Most Romantic Place I’ve Never Been

I couldnā€™t describe, exactly, the layout of the trailer my family moved into when we arrived in the United States; or even the view outside the first apartment I lived in on my own. But I can close my eyes and summon the fearsome rush of the river in Vergheseā€™s Covenant of Water. A snowy […]

My Favorite Pieces From Quince’s One-Day Sale

Good news! Today, Quince ā€” the San Francisco-based brand that creates luxury essentials at reasonable prices ā€” is doing a one-day sale. They almost never have sales, so weā€™re eyeing their beautiful pieces, like cotton sweaters, silk shirts, and puffer coats. Here are a few more favoritesā€¦ First up, I love this washable silk shirt […]